Master Your Mind: Why Controlling Your Thinking Is Essential

Are you controlling your thinking?

Here’s why I ask.

I think being in control of your thinking is important because it allows you to be the master of your own mind. Being in charge of your thinking is vital for you to live an empowered, fulfilling life.

For the longest time, my life felt like an out-of-control rollercoaster.

Negative thoughts invaded my mind on a daily basis. This led to feelings of stress and frustration that seemed to follow me everywhere.

My relationships suffered as my constant worry, tension, and fear made it difficult for me to think clearly or make rational decisions.

With my negative thoughts, limiting beliefs, and lack of focus holding me back from achieving my goals, I constantly worried about what the future might bring. Because of my anxiety, I couldn’t sleep properly. This left me feeling fatigued and exhausted at the end of most days.

Today it’s a different story.

By practicing the processes we’re going to talk about today, I have been able to change my direction and unleash the potential within me. By focusing on the present moment and cultivating self-awareness, I now focus clearly and have regained my sense of self-confidence.

Since this has been so helpful for me, today I want to share with you some tools I’ve picked up along the way that might be able help you control your thinking as well.

Why is controlling your thinking so important?

When your thinking is out of control, it can affect every aspect of your life. I can make your life a mess, like mine was.

For you to step out of this rut and lead a healthy and meaningful life, it is essential to maintain control over your thinking.

Here’s the good news.

With conscious effort, you can direct your thoughts towards the positive aspects of your life and away from negative thought patterns and limiting beliefs. Controlling your thinking is possible when you decide to practice this type of mindful thinking.

Having mindful control over your thoughts will reduce your stress and anxiety and improve your mental and emotional well-being. It will also strengthen your relationships with others.

Factors that affect your thinking

There are several factors that can make controlling your thinking difficult. Such as:

Traumatic experiences from your past

Events and triggers from your past, particularly traumatic ones, can shape the way you think and especially the way you react. These experiences can lead to negative thought patterns that can manifest as anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).


When you’re highly stressed, it makes it difficult to focus and think clearly. It can almost make it feel you’re walking around in a fog. Chronic stress can also contribute to negative thought patterns that can lead you down a dark path.

Lack of self-awareness

When you lack self-awareness, it’s difficult to recognize and understand how your thoughts and emotions affect you. This can make it extremely challenging to make conscious choices about how to respond to them.


While I don’t want to suggest that we are victims of our genes, research suggests that some mental health conditions, such as depression, may have a genetic component.

Social and cultural factors

In my option, this factor looms large, especially here in the U.S. and is one factor that our society should take a deeper look into. Social and cultural factors include poverty, discrimination, and lack of access to education. These all play a large role in shaping one’s thought patterns.

7 Steps for Controlling Your Thinking

Controlling your thinking will require you to make some changes. Here are seven steps you can do to take control of your thinking:

1. Practice mindfulness

Controlling your thinking requires you to be aware of your thoughts. This is how mindfulness helps, by helping you pay attention to what you’re thinking.

This leads to the next step: identifying your limiting beliefs. 

2. Identify limiting beliefs.

It’s important to identify limiting beliefs because they can hold you back from achieving your goals.

Once you have identified these limiting beliefs, the next step is to challenge them.

3. Challenge your negative thoughts.

When you notice negative thoughts, question their validity.

Ask yourself, “Is this thought true? Is this thought based on evidence? Is it helpful?”

What you’ll find is most of these are not true. So instead of letting your thoughts run wild, you can begin controlling your thinking by focusing on what you want.

4. Focus on solutions

Most people focus on what went wrong or the problems they face. Instead, focus on finding solutions or what you want to happen. Not only does this help to reduce stress, but it also improves your ability to cope with difficult situations in the future.

As you look for a solution, you need to maintain a positive mindset. This leads to step 5.

5. Controlling your thinking with positive thinking.

You can develop a positive mindset focusing on the positive in your life instead of dwelling on negative thoughts and events. This helps to shift your perspective and improve your mood.

6. Practice gratitude

Most people focus on what they don’t have. Rather than focusing on what you lack, as you pursue your solution, remember to take time to appreciate the things you already have. This can also help to improve your overall sense of well-being.

7. Consider seeking therapy or counseling

If you go through all the steps above and still have problems controlling your thinking, then consider a therapist or counselor. These mental health professionals can help you identify and overcome negative thought patterns and work with you to develop strategies for taking control of your thinking.

Ask your doctor or look for a professional close to you that comes from a trusted source, like the APA.

It’s important to note that controlling your thinking is an ongoing process, and it takes time, effort, and practice to develop this skill.

There are many techniques and tools you can use to help take control of your thinking, such as mindfulness, visualization, self-hypnosis, NLP, and self-hypnosis.

What’s most important is you find the methods that work best for you. One last thing, remember to be patient with yourself as you learn to take control of your thoughts.

You Can Learn to Understand Your Thoughts and Emotions

Taking control of your thinking is a powerful tool for personal growth and self-improvement. It allows you to be more aware of your thoughts and emotions, and to make conscious choices about how you respond to them.

Controlling your thinking can help you make better decisions, reduce stress and anxiety, and improve your overall mental and emotional well-being.

It can help you identify and overcome limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns, which can hold you back from achieving your goals and living a fulfilling life.

Rather than being controlled by your thoughts and emotions, use these steps to start taking charge of your thinking today.  

With practice and dedication, taking control of your thinking can unlock a world of potential, allowing you to take charge of your life and reach authentic success.

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